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Fashion and Beauty: “Confessions of a Nigerian Fashionista on a Budget”

The wedding invite arrived with the dreaded words: “Strictly Asoebi.” You know what that means in Nigeria. You’re expected to buy the fabric, pay for tailoring, and somehow still afford accessories and makeup all for one event. My wallet was already crying before I even RSVP’d.

But here’s the thing: I’m a working woman in Lagos. The balancing act between looking good and staying within budget is my superpower. I’ve mastered the art of slaying without breaking the bank, and this wedding was no exception. First, I hit the thrift market for accessories. A gold clutch and matching earrings cost me just ₦4000. Next, I borrowed a gele from my friend a bright yellow one that perfectly matched the Asoebi fabric. The fabric itself? Well, I bought just enough to make a skirt and paired it with a plain white blouse I already owned. My tailor worked her magic for ₦10,000, and voila, I was ready to turn heads. On the day of the wedding, the compliments started pouring in. “You always look so chic,” one woman said. “Where did you get your gele tied?” another asked. I smiled, knowing my secret was safe. Nobody needed to know I’d spent less than ₦20,000 in total.

Ladies, here’s my advice: Fashion isn’t about how much you spend; it’s about how well you put things together. Whether you’re shopping thrift, borrowing from friends, or getting creative with your tailor, confidence is your best accessory.

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